Written By Regina Brett, 90 years old, of The Plain Dealer, Cleveland , Ohio "To celebrate growing older, I once wrote the 45 lessons life taught me. It is the most-requested column I've ever written."
1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good. ?
2. When in doubt, just take the next small step. ?
3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. ?
4. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and parents will. Stay in touch. ?
5. Pay off your credit cards every month. ?
6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree. ?
7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone. ?
8. It's OK to get angry with God. He can take it. ?
9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck. ?
10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile. ?
11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present. ?
12.. It's OK to let your children see you cry. ?
13. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about. ?
14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it. ?
15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God never blinks.
16. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind. ?
17. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful. ?
18. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger. ?
19. It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else. ?
20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer. ?
21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special. ?
22. Over prepare, then go with the flow. ?
23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple. ?
24. The most important sex organ is the brain.
25. No one is in charge of your happiness but you. ?
26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words 'In five years, will this matter?' ?
27. Always choose life.?
28. Forgive everyone everything.
29. What other people think of you is none of your business. ?
30. Time heals almost everything. Give time time. ?
31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change. ?
32. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does. ?
33. Believe in miracles. ?
34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do. ?
35. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now. ?
36. Growing old beats the alternative -- dying young. ?
37. Your children get only one childhood. ?
38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved. ?
39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere. ?
40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back. ?
41. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need. ?
42. The best is yet to come. ?
43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up. ?
44. Yield. ?
45. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift."